Chances are the road to our success is a long one. Sure, sometimes we are in the right place at the right time and we make a huge leap forward – or we get lucky.
But for the most part, it takes patience to reap our rewards. Our capacity to be patient is our level of acceptance to tolerate delay without getting impatient or giving up. Often things happen in a different order than the time span we have in mind. Those that are mentally tough learn to develop patience. Let us think long term and exercise calm patience today.
Let us be true love and bring all the love that we have today. What we do when no one is looking is who we really are.
It’s easy to put on an act and do the right thing when others are watching. But the consequence is chaos on the inside which in turn causes stress and dis”ease.” No matter how big or small, these are the things that define us. No one else may know but we know. When we are aligned internally, we are united externally and life gets easier. Everything falls into place easier and without as much energy. Let us make it our aim to be fully aligned in everything we do today. To allure another is to hold their attention – maybe just for a second or for enough time to get our point across.
It’s a distinctive level of intrigue that helps us be more influential. It’s a way of being charismatic and charming with a higher degree of confidence. There’s a fine line between pretending to be someone that we aren’t and fully expressing who we authentically are and who we are striving to become. Let us allure those around us in a genuine way with the genuine intention of making positive change today. More is greater. More is “in addition.” If others see us less, we are probably doing more. When we are open to doing more, we receive more.
If we are willing to do more than expected, we’ll be rewarded to do more than we do, because the more we do, the more we can do. The more we share, the more we have. Then at some magical point, we do more with less work and we are just that, more. Let us keep learning and yearning to be more and give more today. What type of logic do we use when making decisions, even small decisions?
Is it emotion-based or value-based? Emotion-based logic is making decisions based on how we feel, like I want that 2nd cookie or I don’t want to work out or I don’t want to study for an upcoming class. Value-based logic is making decisions based on what is most important to us. When we make value-based decisions we build trust within ourselves and change the relationship with our thoughts. We in turn are more effective. We are more confident that we can achieve our aspirations. Let us make value-based decisions based on what we value most today. What does average look like to us?
One way to get better is to live above our average. Our average reflects who we are. Maybe all we need to do is work to improve our average every day. What if we reset our average to level up above where we want to be? I bet we would move ourselves up faster if we did. Let us create a better average for ourselves today. Our external worth is a reflection of our inner self-worth and how effectively we bring our unique gifts in service to others.
How we live is either fueling our worth or depleting it. Our value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see our worth. How we perceive our worth is the quality of relationship between our minds and emotions. Let us feel “worth” while and let it be a reflection of our energy today. It’s one thing to make a big deal about doing something for someone else and everyone knows about it.
It’s another to do something for someone who will never be able to reciprocate. Kindness is backed up by silent actions and kind words. Let us sow our seeds quietly and be an opportunity to be a blessing for someone less fortunate today! What does it take to be tough enough to push us to keep going when we want to stop or persevere through hurdles and challenging situations? That one thing varies for each of us. Mostly likely it’s something that aligns with what we value most.
We may not know what we are capable of until we push ourselves to the maximum level with perseverance. That’s when we find our true depth. Perseverance is power and pushing ourselves gives us the power. There’s nothing better than pushing through what seems impossible and standing at the finish line looking back on our success. Let us be tough and say “I can’t believe I did that” today. |
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