Which is it, TO or FOR?
Changing that one little word “TO” to “FOR” can make a huge difference in our perception. Try it.
If we say, “why is ___ happening TO me today?” we are placing ourselves in a reactive mode as if we are a victim of our situation or don’t have control over ourselves.
If we say, “why is ____ happening FOR me today?” it feels more deserving as if it is planned. We see it as an opportunity or blessing.
Let us embrace all things that are working FOR us and in our favor today.